Mindbiz: Why Can’t My Wife Get Over It and Try for More Kids?
Dear Esther,
My wife and I have been married for nine years, b’H. To make a long story short, after many years of failed fertility treatments, my wife finally got...
Yid Parenting: Choose Your Battles
Question: A common theme in your articles is “choosing your battles.” My husband and I are trying to figure out which battles are worth fighting so we can make the...
Dating Forum: Raped on a Date
Question
Something terrible happened to me, and I’ve told no one about it, because they will blame me and say it was my fault. It happened one night on a...
Dating Forum: I’ve Moved Right; My Family’s Stayed Put
Question
I come from a traditional Modern Orthodox type of family. I went to those types of schools and camps, and I was very popular. As is common with that...
Feuerman: A Bird and a Fish Can Fall in Love
By Rabbi Simcha Feuerman
In "Fiddler on the Roof," Tevye exclaims in frustration to his daughter who is considering a marriage outside of the faith, “A bird and a fish...
Mindbiz: Husband Feels Out of Place
Dear Esther,
We moved into the Five Towns about three years ago. We always perceived ourselves to be very blessed regarding the lifestyle we were able to live. We never...
Yid Parenting: To Wait Or Medicate
Question:
I just came back from the doctor, and I’m shaking. He recommended that my son who’s in second grade be medicated. He diagnosed him with ADHD and told me...
Dating Forum: Pass on Man Who Won’t Make An Effort
Question
I have a few questions. My daughter was set up with a young man who has a very busy schedule with work, graduate school, and learning. The only day...
Mindbiz: Feeling Lonely When Relationships Change
Dear Esther,
When my friend Miriam told me that she was getting divorced, I jumped into action. I made up my mind that I would be there for her and...
My Journey: Parental Involvement
I have a multitude of great ideas and I love to write. But as a kid, I had trouble with organizational skills. I always felt stupid being me in...










