Finding The Spark

DISCLAIMER: The following column is a composite of several different experiences I have had with clients. It does not depict a specific encounter. This story is not about you! Most...

An Overdue Thank You

By Malkie Gordon Hirsch Magence One of my earliest memories of losing a friend was at 6 years old. Leah was a girl who lived a block away from me...

No Tiring When Retiring

A colleague of mine announced his retirement and we began discussing the research on mental and physical health associated with leaving one’s former occupation or profession. As I’ve mentioned...

Playing the Field

I’ve been dating for quite a long time and I can’t seem to agree to get married. All the guys say I’m the nicest girl they ever took out...

Lost Attraction

DISCLAIMER: The following column is a composite of several different experiences I have had with clients. It does not depict a specific encounter. This story is not about you! Buckle...

Paying For References

Question I’m a bachur in my mid-20s and I’m having a bit of difficulty in getting shadchanim to work with me ever since I admitted that I’m paying my shidduch...

Espresso Depresso: The Coffee Conundrum

Caffeine is the most popular and the most widely used psychostimulant. Caffeine works actively in the central nervous system and facilitates the activation of several neurochemicals. On the positive...

When A Therapist Needs Help

DISCLAIMER: The following column is a composite of several different experiences I have had with clients. It does not depict a specific encounter. This story is not about you! There...

The One

By Malkie Gordon Hirsch Magence You know those couples that can finish each others’ sentences, due to hearing the same story roughly 20,000 times? It occurred to me that I...

Wrongly Labeled As A Get Refuser

Question I have been unfairly labeled as a “get refuser” and it’s hurting me in finding a good shidduch. When my marriage started to go bad, the first thing my...
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