Question:
I’ve dated a man for many years, mostly on and off. In between,we were both married to different people. We each went through hell in those marriages. I know he has feelings for me, but he has made it clear that he won’t marry me. His last divorce cleaned him out, and I think he has trust issues.
We had a huge fight, and before I hung up I told him that he will never hear from me again and that he should not call me unless he is ready to marry me. So far, he hasn’t called, and I cry myself to sleep every night over this. But I also cried every night before this because he won’t marry me. Do you think I should call him and continue the way things were going? I would rather have him in my life that way than not at all. We have so much fun together, and I love him so much?
What would you do?